Njengabazali, sihlala sifuna abantwana bethu, ngakumbi ithoyi. Kubalulekile ukukhetha iithoyi ezingabinandi kuphela kwaye ukonwabisa, kodwa kukhuselekile kwaye zemfundo. Ngokhetho oluninzi kakhulu emarikeni, kokwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo lunokuba nzima. Nangona kunjalo, ukuthatha ixesha lokukhetha iithoyi zokukhetha ngononophelo kumntwana wakho kunokuba nefuthe elibonakalayo kuphuhliso lwabo kunye nezempilo ngokubanzi.
Ukhuseleko kufuneka luhlale luqala xa ukhetha iithoyi zabantwana. Kubalulekile ukujonga iithoyi ezifanelekileyo zobudala ezingabenzi naziphi na iindawo ezincinci ezinokubangela ingozi. Ukongeza, ukuqinisekisa ukuba izixhobo ezisetyenziswa kwiithoyi zetyhefu azinatyhefu kwaye zihlala zibalulekile ekukhuseleni abantwana bethu. Ngokukhetha ukhuselekoiithoyi, sinokubanika abantwana indawo ekhuselekileyo yokudlala kwaye siphonononge ngaphandle komngcipheko ongeyomfuneko.
Ukongeza kukhuseleko, ixabiso lemfundo le-toy kufuneka lithathelwe ingqalelo. Iithoyi zidlala indima ebalulekileyo yokufunda komntwana kunye nophuhliso. Banceda abantwana baphuhlise izakhono ezisisiseko ezinjengokusombulula iingxaki, ubuchule kunye nezakhono ezifanelekileyo zemoto. Khangela iithoyi ezivuselela ingcinga, ezinje ngeebhloko, iipuzzle kunye nezinto zobugcisa. Ezi ntlobo zeethoyi zokunganikezeli kwiiyure zokuzonwabisa kodwa zikhuthaze ukuphuculwa kwengqondo kunye nobuchule babantwana.
Ukongeza, ukukhetha iithoyi ezikhuthaza ukusebenza komzimba kubalulekile kwimpilo-ntle yabantwana iyonke. Iithoyi ezingaphandle ezinjengeebhola, iibhayisikile, kunye neentambo zokutsiba zinokukhuthaza abantwana ukuba bahlale bekhuthele, baziqhelanise nokuzilolonga, kwaye bahlakulele indlela yokuphila esempilweni kwasebuncinaneni.
Xa ukhetha iithoyi zabantwana bakho, ikwahlawula kwakhona ukujonga izinto zabo nezinto azithandayo. Ngokukhethaiithoyiihambelana nomdla wabo, sinokukhuthaza ukuthanda ukufunda kunye nokuhlola. Nokuba ziikhithi zesayensi, izixhobo zomculo, okanye iincwadi, zinika abantwana ngeento zokudlala ezilungele iimfuno zabo ezinokuthi zingene kwinkanuko yokufunda nokufunyanwa.
Ukuqukumbela, iinto zokudlala esikhetha kubantwana bethu badlala indima ebalulekileyo kuphuhliso lwabo kunye nokukhula kwabo. Ngokubeka phambili ukhuseleko, ixabiso lemfundo kunye nezinto abanomdla kuzo, sinokubanika iithoyi ezingapheliyo kuphela kodwa banegalelo kwintlalo-ntle yabo. Ukutyala imali kwizithombelo ezikhuselekileyo nezifundisa kubantwana bakho lutyalo mali kwikamva labo.
IXESHA LOKUQALA: Jun-27 ukuya ku-4024